hi, i am thinking of asking a girl out, but she found out a close family member has cancer. I think it would be wise not to ask, but give her support through this time, but when would be a good time to ask her out. the other problem is that I will only see her on a regular basis for only another week or two at best. We don't go to the same school. she doesn't have a cell, while i don't have a facebook. she is a grade or two younger than me, and it might be weird to have the parent listen in on a private phone conversation on the old landline. how do we keep in touch?do you think it would be too forward to give her my cell # or cut her a bouquet, or do anything at all, I can relate to her pain, but what should I do to help? surely taking a relationship to the next level would take advantage, right? signed, how to help a friend in need w/out taking advantage
It sounds like you are interested in this girl, but want to be respectful of what she is going through with her family member and not bombard her with anything she might not be ready for at this time. FX thinks that it is very caring and considerate of you to be thinking about this!
FX thinks there are three options you can go with: