Other Emotional Health Issues / Question
Published: February 23, 2001
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I Shoplift. I don't want to get caught so I always say I'm never going to do this. But then I do it again-like a compulsion. What is the cause? Cure?
Signed: I Shoplift
Dear I Shoplift,
Statistics show that teenagers shoplift much more than any other age group. This behavior seems to reflect a rebellious attitude and rarely is an indicator of a life of crime to come. There seems to be a need to prove to their peers that they can reject authority and standards their parents have set.
TeenHealthFX is concerned that your stealing may be symptomatic of compulsive stealing. The difference between your stealing behavior and "thrill shoplifting" is that you have made unsuccessful attempts to stop. This is often a similar pattern that an addict follows when he/she tries to stop drinking or using drugs. As with other addictions it probably is helpful to admit that you are powerless over your stealing behavior and seek help. Compulsions and addictions are often symptoms of some underlying problem.
TeenHealthFX encourages you to seek help before you are caught by the police and have legal consequences. Although your problem seems more emotional than criminal, the courts often do not see it that way.
Let your parents know that you need help. They may be angry at first but they will come around. Parents have a way of coming through when you need them. Ask your doctor, school counselor, or school nurse to recommend a therapist. If you live in northern New Jersey you can also call the Access Center at Atlantic Health System (1.888.247.1400) for an appointment with a therapist.
Signed: TeenHealthFX
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