TeenHealthFX - Answers - Think I Have GAD, But Parents Don't Want Me To Seek Treatment

Worries, Fears and Anxiety Disorders / Question
Published: November 3, 2008

Dear TeenHealthFX,

I don't really know what to do right now. I think that I've got GAD, but I can't really talk to anyone about it. My mom thinks I think I have it because "all of your friends have it too", and it's just peer pressure. My dad doesn't want me to get diagnosed if I have it because he doesn't want me on medication. But I'm just really worried that I have it because I match the symptoms. Is there anyway I can get diagnosed without them being around, because I can't deal with this anymore.

Signed: Think I Have GAD, But Parents Don't Want Me To Seek Treatment

Dear Think I Have GAD, But Parents Don't Want Me To Seek Treatment,

So our readers are clear, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is not something people can catch from others or develop from peer pressure. And while some people who have been diagnosed with GAD benefit from taking some type of psychotropic medication, medication is not the only form of treatment available for this disorder. If someone is adamantly against the idea of meds, it doesn’t mean there is nothing left to do – there are various kinds of therapies available that can address the symptoms of GAD.

If you are concerned that you may have GAD, FX thinks that it is important that you discuss your concerns with a medical and/or mental health professional. If your parents are hesitant to take you for a consultation, speak with your primary care physician or school social worker or psychologist about your concerns. Let them know what symptoms you have that make you worry you might have GAD. Based on what you tell them, they will be able to determine whether or not a consultation is truly necessary. And, if it is, your doctor or school counselor can speak to your parents on your behalf.

If you live in northern New Jersey and need help finding a therapist you can call the Access Center from Atlantic Behavioral Health at 973-247-1400. Outside of this area you can log onto the US Department of Health and Human Services Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration website for referrals in your area. You can also contact your insurance company to get a list of in-network mental health providers or check with your school social worker or psychologist to get a list of referrals in your area.

Signed: TeenHealthFX