TeenHealthFX - Answers

Parents & Family / Question
Published: January 21, 2002

Dear TeenHealthFX,

I am 14; if I was to run away from home and my mom called the cops, what can they do to me?

Signed: Run Away

Dear Run Away,

TeenHealthFX asked a police officer about this and got the following information: He assured me that the teenager, when found, would be taken into custody and immediately brought to police headquarters where the parent or guardian would be contacted. Further action would depend on the adult. If the adult feels a detention center or legal intervention is necessary, the police will make arrangements. If the adult wishes to bring the teen home and deal with the matter privately, so be it. However, he advised me this alternative would not happen before a lengthy, serious discussion--involving the police, the teen and the parent/guardian. He assured me the situation would not be taken lightly.

TeenHealthFX is very concerned with your desire to run away. What is going on in your life that you might be feeling like running away? Running away usually does not solve anything, and sometimes can make things worse. If things are overwhelming you or are too hard to handle finding someone you can trust to talk to is the first step. If you feel you are unable to talk to your parents, find another trusted adult. This person may be your teacher or coach, an older sibling, or your school guidance counselor. Let them help you with what is going on and give you some support. Please try this before running away. Your safety and well being are most important; and running away puts both in jeopardy.

TeenHealthFX does not know why you may be thinking of running away so we want you to be aware of the following two resources: Childhelp USA at 1.800.4A CHILD; this is to report if you (or another child/teen) is being abused) and the National Runaway Switchboard - 1.800.621.4000; an organization you can contact if you are thinking of running away or if you need help after you have run away.

Signed: TeenHealthFX