Pregnancy: General Pregnancy And Pregnancy Prevention Questions/Concerns / Question
Published: November 1, 2000
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I have never had sex and do not plan on it, but I am worried about getting pregnant after oral sex. What can I do to prevent that? As of now I think I have made sure that the pre-ejaculatory fluid never even comes close to my vagina. What are the chances then, of my getting pregnant, and how can I prevent it?
Signed: Worried About Pregnancy After Oral Sex
Dear Worried About Pregnancy After Oral Sex,
TeenHealthFX is glad that you are trying to prevent pregnancy! You cannot become pregnant if sperm (what is in the pre-ejaculatory fluid) does not go anywhere near your vagina - your being careful is a good thing. However, oral sex puts you at risk for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) that you don't want to get either!
How do you prevent STDs? By learning and following safer sex guidelines!
Here are some safe sex guidelines to use even with oral sex:
1. If you suspect that your partner has an STD, do not perform any sexual act until you and your partner discuss it between yourselves and with a doctor.
2. Safe Oral Sex performed on a male - Use a condom to avoid direct contact with skin and potential body fluids. Try not to have teeth scratch the condom. If this does happen, remove the condom and replace it with a new one.
3. Safe Oral Sex performed on a female - Use a dental dam to cover the vaginal area. When performing oral sex, keep the dental dam in place and make sure that it does not become torn or damaged. If this does happen, remove it and replace it with a new one.
4. If you are planning on having any type intercourse (vaginal or anal), use a latex condom. This not only prevents STDs, but also pregnancy.
5. Sex can be fun and exciting, but it carries risks if you are not prepared (including emotional, social and physical effects). Be sure that both you and your partner are ready and believe it is the right time for you. Discussing your readiness and how you will prevent STDs and pregnancy with your partner and a doctor will help keep you safe and healthy.
There are teen health centers that offer confidential care, which means that you do not need your parent's permission for treatment. Many of these centers see teenagers at low or no cost. Since you and your girlfriend are practicing oral sex, it's a good idea to seek medical advice for safe sex information and pregnancy prevention. If you live in the Northern NJ area, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health for an appointment at 973.889.6350 or you can call you local Planned Parenthood.
Be safe, your life is worth it! Call and make an appointment at your local teen health center!
Signed: TeenHealthFX
Smoking is the leading preventable cause of death in this country. More than 400,000 Americans die from tobacco-related causes each year, and most of them began using tobacco before the age of 18.
