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Weird Aversion to Hospitals

Published: April 12, 2010
Dear TeenHealthFX,

 

I have this really weird aversion to hospitals. I'm a 17 year old female. Ever since I was little I've been either terribly uncomfortable with doctors or I am overly content with them. For example, I went to physical therapy last year and actually enjoyed being hooked up to a machine. I really can't explain why, but I was comfortable and liked the attention. But today, one of my friends entered the hospital with appendicitis and I am overcome with discomfort at the idea of him in a hospital bed and while I know he'll be fine I'm still really upset. I can't understand how I can feel content being treated for medical problems and then other times like today I'm a nervous wreck. I myself have never had to stay overnight and have never had any bad experiences. I've tried therapy in the past but this really isn't a problem that affects my day to day life, and like I said, I sometimes don't react well to doctors/therapists. Still, I'm starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me. Sometimes at night I dream that I'm in the hospital and it doesn't bother me at all, but when it happens to other people I really don't handle it well. Are there any other people out there like me? Any advice on what this phobia could be would really help me out. Thank you so much.

Signed: Weird Aversion to Hospitals

Dear Weird Aversion to Hospitals,

 

Since you are able to go to a hospital for personal medical care your situation really would not be considered a phobia. Hospitals create anxiety in many people for a variety of reasons. The most common is when a hospital is associated with negative experience, a negative belief or taps into another fear associated with illness. Fortunately your experience does not prevent you from being able to seek hospital services for yourself. Nonetheless is must be frustrating not to be able to comfortably visit someone or accompany someone to the hospital. It would seem that if you are the one who is the focus of the medical attention is gives you a greater sense of control and therefore does not cause the same anxiety. Seeing others dealing with illness may leave you feeling helpless and that might be what makes you feel uncomfortable.

 

You mentioned you tried therapy in the past but it wasn’t clear whether it was specifically to deal with this issue. You are right, the situation probably does not come into play a lot but at the same time it seems to bother you. For this reason you may want to consider therapy again. Situations like yours usually have a good response when using cognitive-behavioral therapy (based on the idea that our thoughts cause our feelings and behaviors, not external things) or behavioral therapy (focuses on changing undesirable behaviors.)

 

 

 

 

Signed: TeenHealthFX

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