My boyfriend and I have been together for nine months, previous to our relationship he had a short relationship but liked her very much. She broke up with him. A few months ago I saw a text from her so I confronted him and asked him if he still talked to her and he said no. A few days ago I found out that he has been talking to other girls, her being one of them. I feel that I cannot trust him anymore and that everything he has ever said to me was a lie. Should I try to talk to him about this or just break up with him?
Based on your statement, “I feel that I cannot trust him anymore and that everything he has ever said to me was a lie,” talking to him probably would just produce more deceit on his part. It seems that he has a hard time being sincere with you and that prevents the building of trust in the relationship. A bond that is not based on mutual respect is not a very good one. Why be in a relationship if you are plagued by doubts.