Whether girls or guys are prone to getting STDs can depend on the STD. Certain STDs, such as Chlamydia, are more commonly reported in females. Other STDs, such as syphilis, are more common among males. However, keep in mind that this does not necessarily mean that girls are more likely to get a particular STD – it may just be due to the fact that girls are more likely to get complications from certain STDs and therefore get tested and diagnosed. Remember that both guys and girls can get STDs, and that STDs can be transmitted from both guys and girls.
Both girls and guys can be carrying an STD, but may be asymptomatic. This means that they have no symptoms despite being infected. This is why it is recommended that you get screened for STDs regularly by your physician if you are sexually active. That is also why it is recommended that you not take your partner’s word for it that they are “fine” before having sex – but that you insist your partner is tested for STDs prior to becoming sexually active with him or her. If your partner respects you, he/she should be okay with your request – if your partner is not okay with your request then you may not be in the healthiest relationship in terms of your partner relating to you with care and respect.
If you have any more questions about STDs, or are concerned you may have an STD, speak to your primary care physician or an adolescent medicine specialist as soon as possible. And if you are concerned you may have an STD, refrain from any sexual contact until you see your doctor.
If you don't have a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-6475 for an appointment with an adolescent medicine specialist or contact your local teen health center or Planned Parenthood. You can also contact your insurance company for a list of in-network providers.