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16 And Pregnant

Published: September 14, 2008
Dear TeenHealthFX,
im am currently 16 and im pregnant. im two months pregnants. the way i found out is that i havent had my period, pregnancy test and ive been throwing up lately. i cant tell my parents cause they will kill me and i am not going insane or exaggerating. my mom has cancer and is on chemoradiation which makes her have horrible moods. my mom and dad have been arguing a heck of a lot too lately. but in a week i have a doctor appointment with my physician for a physical and i was curious. can my doctor tell im pregnant? if i take the injections could it harm the baby? if i live in hawaii, are there confidental rights if i ask my doctor not to tell and explain that ill tell my parents later? and another question is was the normal weight if im 16 and pregnant.. cause i think im fat but my boyfriend told me its nothing and my weights ok. help me. from the lost confused girl
Signed: 16 And Pregnant

Dear 16 And Pregnant,

 

TeenHealthFX thinks that it is extremely important that you speak to your primary care physician, or another medical professional, about your pregnancy right away for two reasons. The first is to discuss the options you have and figure out what option is best for you (abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby). The second is to discuss medically what you need to do depending what option you pick. If you choose to have the abortion, you need to act quickly as abortions should be performed early in the pregnancy. If you choose to have the baby (whether to adopt out or keep), then you need to speak to a medical professional to learn about prenatal care, including what kinds of activities, foods, medications, etc. are safe or not safe for you during your pregnancy. In terms of the injections you are currently receiving, FX cannot advise you on whether or not they are safe during pregnancy because we do not know what kind of injections they are. But it is possible they could be harmful to the baby – so you do need to speak to your doctor about this before you get your next injection.

 

As for what is kept confidential or not, generally in the United States minors can receive STD treatment and information/resources on practicing safer sex confidentially, but the issue of abortion and confidentiality can be a different matter. To clarify for yourself what can and cannot be kept confidential, ask your doctor at the beginning of the appointment what kinds of services/discussions can be kept confidential and what kinds of services/discussions must be shared with your parents.

 

FX understands that you may not feel comfortable speaking with your parents about this given what your mother is going through and the fighting currently going on with your parents. But you do need to talk to some adult so you can get guidance and support in what you want to do from here.

 

There are several options as to where you can turn for help:

  • You can speak with your primary care physician at your next appointment.
  • You can contact your local teen health center or Planned Parenthood.
  • You can contact your insurance company for a list of in-network medical providers.
  • If this is an unplanned pregnancy, you can call 1-800-672-2296. And if you are pregnant, but have no medical insurance, you can call 1-800-450-0183.
  • You can also go to PregnancyLine.com where you can learn more about your options, as well as to find health centers near you.
  • You can go to the following website: http://www.focusas.com/Hawaii.html
  • You can call the Ask Aloha Helpline at 2-1-1 for help and referral information.

 

FX would also like to stress that if you decide not to have this baby, or have this baby and do not want to have another baby for some time, that it is very important for you to speak to your doctor about practicing safer sex. Generally this includes using a condom each time you have sex, as well as a back-up method of birth control, such as the pill or patch.

Signed: TeenHealthFX

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