TeenHealthFX thinks that it is extremely important that you speak to your primary care physician, or another medical professional, about your pregnancy right away for two reasons. The first is to discuss the options you have and figure out what option is best for you (abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby). The second is to discuss medically what you need to do depending what option you pick. If you choose to have the abortion, you need to act quickly as abortions should be performed early in the pregnancy. If you choose to have the baby (whether to adopt out or keep), then you need to speak to a medical professional to learn about prenatal care, including what kinds of activities, foods, medications, etc. are safe or not safe for you during your pregnancy. In terms of the injections you are currently receiving, FX cannot advise you on whether or not they are safe during pregnancy because we do not know what kind of injections they are. But it is possible they could be harmful to the baby – so you do need to speak to your doctor about this before you get your next injection.
As for what is kept confidential or not, generally in the United States minors can receive STD treatment and information/resources on practicing safer sex confidentially, but the issue of abortion and confidentiality can be a different matter. To clarify for yourself what can and cannot be kept confidential, ask your doctor at the beginning of the appointment what kinds of services/discussions can be kept confidential and what kinds of services/discussions must be shared with your parents.
FX understands that you may not feel comfortable speaking with your parents about this given what your mother is going through and the fighting currently going on with your parents. But you do need to talk to some adult so you can get guidance and support in what you want to do from here.
There are several options as to where you can turn for help:
FX would also like to stress that if you decide not to have this baby, or have this baby and do not want to have another baby for some time, that it is very important for you to speak to your doctor about practicing safer sex. Generally this includes using a condom each time you have sex, as well as a back-up method of birth control, such as the pill or patch.