Due to the large number of questions received, TeenHealthFX unfortunately cannot answer every question sent in. We do read all of them but can answer only a limited number.
TeenHealthFX wants you to know that it is very normal for you to feel curious about sex and, yes, even role-playing. What's more, we understand that it must be confusing to be attracted to something that you feel conflicted about. As long as there is nothing illegal going on in your experimentation an no one is getting hurt in any way, TeenHealthFX believes that it is a normal part of development to test the boundaries of what you are and are not comfortable with. Spanking and role-playing on occasion are no exception.
Just be sure that you are comfortable with your and your boyfriend's experimentation and that you let him know how you feel and what you want -- even if it means you would rather him not continue to spank you.
Lastly, keep in mind that, as always, you want to remember to be discreet about your private affairs. Your friends may find your role playing unusual and make negative comments. Your sex life - as long as nobody is being harmed in any way - is your own business, and is better left between you and your boyfriend.
If at any time you feel that your desire to experiment with spanking and role playing begins to prevent you from having normal relationships, then you may want to consult a professional therapist for assistance. If this happens and you feel you need help and live in northern New Jersey, you could call the Access Center from Atlantic Behavioral Health at 888.247.1400 for an appointment.