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Sexually Transmitted Diseases / Question
Published: June 26, 2007

Dear TeenHealthFX,

 


Hello TeenHealthFX. This is quite an emergency really. I’m fourteen and my boyfriends 17. We have been together 9 months and we are quite sexually active. Although I am a virgin, he has slept with up to forty girls, only one unprotected from STD's/STI's, but has had oral sex (both giving and receiving) unprotected on many occasions. We have had oral sex unprotected but I did go to the doctors with him before we did anything sexual at all, because he wanted an STD check to prove to me he was clean. The doctor suggested a blood test, a urine test and a swab from the back of the mouth to check for all STI's. A few weeks later we went back for the results, and the doctor gave us the paper. The sheet said my boyfriend was clear of all STD's. Recently, I've heard that the three procedures he had done would not test him for everything. Should I be worried? PLEASE reply. I’m so scared.

Signed: How Do You Test For STDs?




Dear How Do You Test For STDs?,

 

Since you mention both STDs and STIs in your letter, TeenHealthFX would like to take the opportunity to inform our readers about the difference between these two terms. Both STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) and STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections) can be passed from person to person during various types of sexual contact. The difference between the two terms is that STDs are infections occurring with symptoms, and STIs are infections that do not necessarily have any noticeable symptoms. Some prefer the term STIs when discussing this topic to stress the many types of infections that can be passed from one sexual partner to another regardless of whether or not there are any types of symptoms present at the time sexual contact takes place.

 

With the prevalence of STIs, especially among teens and young adults, it is critical to be well-informed about them and about testing options. It sounds like you are on your way in terms of being well-educated about this topic since you insisted that your boyfriend be tested prior to being sexually active with him. In terms of your concern that your boyfriend may not have been tested for all STIs, it is important to know that STI tests may test for a single disease or consist of a number of individual tests for any of a wide range of STIs – but there is not one test for all STIs. Therefore, if you want to be tested for STIs, you need to discuss with your healthcare provider what tests are most appropriate for you. FX would also like to stress to our readers that, in general, do not assume that just because blood was drawn or a urine sample was taken that you were automatically tested for STIs. You have to make sure various STIs are being tested for by making specific requests of your healthcare provider or testing facility.

 

Here are some details on available tests:

 

When to consider testing and what to test for:

 

If you are concerned about the tests your boyfriend had, suggest to him that he contact his doctor to find out what STIs were already tested for, and to discuss whether there are other STIs that he should consider being additionally tested for. If you are concerned about yourself, you can also receive your own STI tests.

 

FX wants to stress to our readers that not all STDs appear right away – that in some instances a disease can be carried without any outward symptoms, leaving a greater risk of passing that disease onto others. And because it is generally much easier to prevent the transmission of STDs than it is to treat them, FX encourages people to make safer sex decisions. This can include using a condom during vaginal, anal or oral sex. You can also learn more about safer sex practices by reading our answer to “Condoms And STDs”, as well as by talking to your primary care physician or any other medical professional.

 

If you need information about whether or not you should consider being tested, or what kinds of STIs you should be tested for, you can contact FFYR (Fight For Your Rights) hotline at 1-888-BE-SAFE-1. For more information on STI testing, go to the American Social Health Association’s Facts and Answers about STDs. You can also contact the CDC hotlines for STDs (800-227-8922) and HIV/AIDS (800-342-AIDS).

 

If you don't have a doctor and live in northern New Jersey, you can call the Adolescent/Young Adult Center for Health at 973-971-6475 for an appointment or contact your local teen health center or Planned Parenthood. You can also contact Girl’s Street – A Young Woman’s Health Program – at 908.522.2555.

 

 

Signed: TeenHealthFX



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