Sexuality & Sexual Health

Is It Possible My Boyfriend Is Using The Wrong Size Condom?

Published: August 08, 2020

Dear TeenHealthFX,

My boyfriend and I are sexually active. He will wear condoms but he's said it is very hard for him to maintain and erection and ejaculate with one on. I've noticed that when buying them he'll pick the first ones he sees and thinks look good. Could it be possible he is using the wrong size/brand or is he just unlucky in that they're simply uncomfortable with them?

Signed: Is It Possible My Boyfriend Is Using The Wrong Size Condom?

Dear Is It Possible My Boyfriend Is Using The Wrong Size Condom?,

TeenHealthFX is glad that you and your boyfriend are practicing safe sex. When condoms are used consistently and on every sexual encounter, they are 98% effective in preventing pregnancy and the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases.

Condoms come in many shapes and sizes and it is possible for your boyfriend to find one that he prefers for a better experience for both of you. It is also important to make sure that the ones being purchased are FDA certified. TeenHealthFX strongly encourages you to continue using condoms during every sexual encounter. Finding the right fit can be tricky but doing so will keep you both protected.

Signed: TeenHealthFX

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