Ripping Sound During Sex
Published: November 01, 2016
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I've recently begun having sexual relations with a new boyfriend, and the last time I've been sexually active was 3 years ago. The first time we had sex it felt like I was losing my virginity again, it hurt so bad. We've had sex about 7 times now and it's gotten a little better, but when he first inserts himself it's painful. It feels like I'm on fire or I'm being ripped every time he thrusts in and out. We've used live and it helps a little. And sometimes when he goes too deep there's a very sharp pain. Other times when he's deep it feels almost as if his penis is catching on something or getting stuck? The ripping sensation is even worse if we try to have sex a day after having sex before.
Signed: Ripping Sound During Sex
Dear Ripping Sound During Sex,
That doesn’t sound like it is a very enjoyable experience for you. TeenHealthFX cannot give you any insight as to what’s happening with your body. It would be important for you to make an appointment with your doctor so that she/he can identify why intercourse has been painful for you. Once the underlying reason(s) are identified, the doctors will help you find a solution that works for you.
Since this affects you and your partner as a couple, it would make sense that your partner would go to the appointment with you. A gratifying sex life is an important part of most relationships and it is important both partners feel their needs are being met.
Signed: TeenHealthFX
